family, food allergy friendly

Meatloaf, mashed potatoes, and a green

Nothin’ fancy.  In fact, many people you ask don’t like meatloaf, but our family loves it.  Actually, anything that has a tomato based product (ketchup) Michael is all in!  This was one of the first meals I cooked that was Lauren friendly, she liked, and would eat.  It is a simple recipe because you basically just mix all of the ingredients together in a bowl and then transfer to a loaf pan and into the oven.  Boil a few Russett potatoes, drain, whip with some chicken broth or a non-dairy milk (I use whichever I have on hand) and mashed potatoes are finished.

Now, don’t forget a green vegetable to go with everything!  True story:  When Steve and I were in college, my mom came over to take us to dinner one evening and the one rule she had was we had to get a green vegetable to go with whatever we chose to eat off the menu.  She wanted to make sure she got one good meal in us because, as most college students did back then, we ate as cheap as possible.  Lots of Taco Bell, ramen noodles, and soft drinks filled our bellies.  That rule has stuck with me.  So, at our house, if there is a food that isn’t your favorite, you must still take some, but it is called a no thank you helping (a smaller portion than normal, but you are being respectful of the person who cooked the meal, and whether you want to admit it or not, you are benefitting from a balanced meal, not leaving out the vegetable because you happen to only like tomato based products 😉  The vegetable rule was my moms.  The no thank-you helping I learned from Steve’s cousin, Jan.  I thought that was ingenius and adopted it right away.   So, we either have english peas, or green beans, or maybe squash and zuccinni.

We had this meal last night before going to the high school football game.  We were a little late for kickoff, but our tummies were full of a home-cooked meal and we sat down at the table to eat dinner -together.  I think that’s important .  So, as much as humanly possible, we do it…and without further ado- Let’s eat!

 

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Ingredients:

  1 1/2 lbs ground beef                                 1/2 tsp pepper

  1/2 c chopped onions                                 1/4 cup ketchup

  1/4 cup bell pepper                                    1/4 tsp garlic powder

  1 tsp baking powder                                  1/2 tsp salt

 3/4 cup rice milk (or non-dairy milk)

 

 

Directions:

Mix all ingredients together.  Pack into a loaf pan.  Bake at 350 degrees for 1 hour and 15 minutes.

 

 

family, marriage

A Chord of Three Strands…

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Well, it has been a little over a year since my very open post on married life and all the things and I thought I might visit with you about where we are.  Steve and I have been married now for 26 years.  Last year we hit a pretty rough patch.  I confessed how we didn’t seem to be on the same page anymore.  At the time, it felt more like not even in the same library!

We have become more intentional in our relationship.  Praying together before we walk out the door to go to work, school or whereever happens every morning.  Every morning.  Do we still have moments of frustration with each other or times we don’t see eye to eye?  Yes, but it is less often and less intense.  We seem to have found a new rhythm.

It was really different with both the girls out of the house and just Michael under our roof.  I recognized Steve’s need for BMX and all that entails and I think he has recognized that I needed to decompress from my former job and just be mom and wife for a while.  I needed to get our home back together.  We have also discovered that I have been dealing with some health issues that explains my exhaustion all of the time and why I couldn’t seem to do all of the things and keep up like I used to.  I am feeling much better, sleeping again, which helps alot!  I guess the pace of the Bierman household has slowed down compared to when there were five of us here, but we still have plenty to keep us busy!

I have noticed that Steve and I both acknowledge what is important to the other more readily.  We definitley make time for each other.  We are much more intentional about our relationship.  I guess it’s just that it was easier before kids, multiple kids and all that goes with that.  It sounds so simple yet we somehow still wound up where we did and had to fight our way back to each other.  It was worth the fight.  It is easy to just build a wall and do your own thing when things are tense.  It is difficult to stay affectionate with someone you feel at odds with.  However, choosing to show our spouse love and affection, even when it would be easier not to, benefits the both of us.  I have found that when we do the hard work, God blesses that.

The most powerful change we have made is praying with each other.  To some people it may sound kind of corny, but to me, it has made a big difference.  I’m not saying that when we pray all of the clouds depart and a rainbow appears and all of our problems go away.  I am saying that I believe and trust in God’s word and that He is faithful to keep His promises.  According to Lamentations 3:22-23, His lovingkindnesses never cease. For His compassions never fail.  They are new every morning; great is His faithfulness.

I began writing this post back in May or June, I think.  It is now August.  School has started.  Our college girl is not at school, but is home dealing with some pretty heavy health issues.  An unexpected change that we didn’t see coming.   We’ve had lots of unexpecteds this summer.  So the new rhythm will have to become a new, new rhythm.  Ha!  Anyway, new challenges and new stressors, but we still have the same God with us and I know that we will work through these new challenges together, too.  Praying all the way.

A chord of three strands is not quickly broken.  Ecclesiastes 4:12

 

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Dear great nephews,

It was so nice meeting you.  I really enjoyed getting to hold you and watch you as you slept.  You are precious!  Psalm 139:14 says, You are fearfully and wonderfully made.  There are some things I think it is important for you to know.  Your family loves you very much.  Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from Him.  Psalm 127:3

You are so tiny and brand new to this great big world.  Right now you sleep a lot and cry when you are hungry.  You are still getting used to being outside of the warm, comfy womb you occupied for the past 9 months, but soon you will be awake more often and learning to communicate and do all kinds of things.

Please be patient with your moms and dads as they learn how to take care of you.  They are new at this whole parenting thing and will do their best to keep up with you and your needs as you grow.  Your needs will be constantly changing.  While you are still babies, you will probably have times that you get frustrated because they won’t know why you are crying and what you want them to do.  As you grow, there will most likely be times that you will be frustrated and cry because they DO know what you want, but won’t let you have it because it isn’t what you really need…and further down the road, when you are older, there may be times that you think they just can’t possibly know what you need, because they are too old and just don’t understand.  Finally, the day will come when you walk out into the world as an adult and make your own decisions.

Life is an interesting journey with twists and turns, hills and valleys, and forks in the road.  Make the most of every opportunity.  Be kind and compassionate to others.  Be forgiving.  Smile often.  Dream big.  Laugh a lot, and count your blessings!  Delight yourselves in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4  We are so excited to watch you grow!

“You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.”  Winnie the Pooh

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